Display Survival Values and Fitness Indicators: When you first meet someone, her initial attraction to you is largely based on your behavior. If you come across as fearful, timid, or submissive, she’s unlikely to feel attracted. However, if you exude strength, confidence, assertiveness, and remain unfazed—even in the face of pressure—you’ll project qualities that are inherently attractive. You can communicate these masculine traits through confident body language and posture. Intelligence is another critical “survival value.” Show this through congruent conversation, emotional stability, and humor. You might have noticed that some men who aren’t conventionally attractive still succeed with women. This is often because they display these key survival values.
Demonstrate Status and Financial Stability: Status is less about what you have and more about how you carry yourself. You can project status by behaving with confidence, acting as though you are at the top of your social hierarchy, and showing ambition. Financial stability can be subtly communicated through how you dress and by paying for the date without making a big deal about it.
Watch this video for a prime example of how to demonstrate survival value and fitness indicators when approaching women.