I get it—when you really want someone, it’s tempting to think, “She’s giving me a shot, I should take it.” But as someone who’s learned the hard way, let me save you time, money, and energy: don’t chase women who need to be persuaded to see you.
Many women (not all, but many) will go on dates out of politeness, convenience, or boredom—not because they’re truly interested. If you have to convince her to go out with you, she’s not excited about you. And if she’s not excited, you’re already setting yourself up for disappointment.
If she’s dodging plans, making it difficult to lock down a date, or showing lukewarm enthusiasm, take that as a rejection—not a challenge to overcome. The right women won’t make you feel like you’re begging for their time.
Yes, this means you’ll go on fewer dates. Yes, it means you’ll miss out on some opportunities. But I can tell you firsthand—it’s better to date one woman who genuinely wants to be there than to waste time and money on ten who don’t.
Forget trying to “win her over.” If she’s interested, you won’t have to.
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