Every night out falls into one of three categories:
1️⃣ Solo – Great for personal growth, but staying consistent is tough, and nights are hit-or-miss.
2️⃣ With normie friends – Seems like a good idea until they unintentionally (or intentionally) kill your momentum.
3️⃣ With a real wing – Rare, but when you find one, everything just clicks.
A bad wingman is worse than no wingman.
Case in point: The other night, I pulled two stunners while out with a friend. Back at my place, his girl started playfully testing him. Nothing major, but instead of handling it, he got defensive and confrontational. The vibe collapsed, and the entire set blew up.
And this wasn’t the first time. I’ve had “wings” compete for the same girl, hover like creeps, interrupt at the worst moments, get salty if I pull, or just make the night harder than it needs to be.
But on the rare occasion I roll with a real wing? It’s a completely different game. On nights when I’m not feeling 100%, they push me into sets, talk me up, handle the cockblocks, and turn what would’ve been a dead night into a winning one.
The real problem? Finding solid wings is damn near impossible. They get into relationships, move cities, stop going out… and meeting random dudes at bars usually just leads to drinking buddies, not guys who actually want to improve and get results.
Do you want to find a solid wingman and avoid the same problem in encountered before? That’s exactly why I created this site—to help guys connect and find reliable wingmen. Join the public chat and start building your crew!