{"id":241,"date":"2025-02-17T15:02:52","date_gmt":"2025-02-17T15:02:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/daygame-nyc.com\/?p=241"},"modified":"2025-10-18T16:16:51","modified_gmt":"2025-10-18T16:16:51","slug":"dont-date-women-who-are-just-giving-you-a-chance-date-women-who-are-genuinely-interested","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daygame-nyc.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/17\/dont-date-women-who-are-just-giving-you-a-chance-date-women-who-are-genuinely-interested\/","title":{"rendered":"Don\u2019t Date Women Who Are Just \u201cGiving You a Chance\u201d\u2014Date Women Who Are Genuinely Interested"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I get it\u2014when you really want someone, it\u2019s tempting to think, <em>\u201cShe\u2019s giving me a shot, I should take it.\u201d<\/em> But as someone who\u2019s learned the hard way, let me save you time, money, and energy: <strong>don\u2019t chase women who need to be persuaded to see you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many women (not all, but many) will go on dates out of politeness, convenience, or boredom\u2014not because they\u2019re truly interested. If you have to <em>convince<\/em> her to go out with you, she\u2019s not excited about you. And if she\u2019s not excited, you\u2019re already setting yourself up for disappointment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If she\u2019s dodging plans, making it difficult to lock down a date, or showing lukewarm enthusiasm, take that as a <strong>rejection<\/strong>\u2014not a challenge to overcome. The right women won\u2019t make you feel like you\u2019re begging for their time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yes, this means you\u2019ll go on fewer dates. Yes, it means you\u2019ll miss out on some opportunities. 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